they end up tweeting and they will use the c-word or use any word because they haven't been around the rest of america. they have a blind spot about the things they can say. it is why you can have a comedian making fun of sarah palin's kids. they think it is funny in front of a large group and they apologize. >> it is a how to on how to triumph over outrage? >> yes. >> how can we all learn how to triumph over it? >> i have a mirror jerk affect. if somebody bothers you, you have to ask if it was in the reverse, bill mar says something about somebody i like and i get mad. what if it was rush limbaugh. therefore it is not worth getting mad. >> you don't think it is fair when it comes to the outrage? >> the left has been outrageous longer, but the right is catching up. you shouldn't be outrageous because you will break something. life is nun. you are -- life is fun. are you supposed to be out having fun with people. andrew bright bart would say, so, and that's what you have to do. you say so. >> you dedicated the book to andrew bright bart. we often talked about these things when we were g